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Public Speaking Tips
Avoiding the pitfalls of public speaking is easy when you follow these helpful
tips. Learn from the experience of professional speakers, and start way ahead of
the game.
Many
people would rather jump out of an airplane or tackle Mount Everest than stand
up in front of a group of people and give a speech! Yikes! But nervousness is
natural. Even a very experienced professional speaker will get butterflies
before an engagement.
A lot of
what you feel in this situation is simply the adrenaline of excitement. Still,
the last thing you want is to be visibly trembling in front of your audience.
There are
very specific ways to calm yourself down and keep your nerves in check. Deep
breathing and relaxation exercises are wonderful. But there is absolutely
nothing that will calm your nerves faster than being prepared!
You need
to know your material so well that you can speak about it off the top of your
head sideways and upside down. In fact, it's great if you know the material well
enough to recite it, as long as you don't actually recite it. Just know
it well enough that it's completely ingrained in your mind. You'll feel so
confident that you'll sound absolutely natural. You'll be able handle anything
unexpected that comes your way, and you'll be able to answer any questions and
speak to you audience as if they're old friends.
Practice In Front of Others
Preparation isn't limited to your knowledge of your subject, however. You need
to feel just as confident about the way you present yourself. This means
practice, practice, and more practice – and not just in the shower or in front
of the mirror.
Practicing
in front of a mirror can be helpful to start, but it gives you no idea how
you'll feel when someone else is in the room. Start out by practicing for your
spouse or a friend. Then, get a group of people together, and make a video of
your performance. Ask your friends to bring their friends, and give your speech
a try with some strangers present.
Ask your
guests to tell you what they think of your abilities, and ask them to be honest.
Most importantly, ask them to tell you how they felt while you were speaking.
Did they stay interested? If not, when did their minds wander? Did you inspire
them? If it's more comfortable for everyone, you can ask your guests to write
down their thoughts anonymously.
Watch the
videotape, and make whatever adjustments you need in order to improve your
performance. Better yet, hire a professional coach to give you public speaking
training. You don't have to be perfect, but a true professional speaker never
stops making improvements.
Follow
These Public Speaking Tips
In the
meantime, here are some very helpful public speaking tips that every good public
speaker knows!
1. Check
out the room ahead of time to make sure you know where everything is located,
how the microphone works, and how loud you will need to speak to be heard in the
back of the room.
2. Keep a
timer of some kind available so that you will know when your time is up.
Whatever you do, don't look at your watch. Your audience will think you'd rather
be somewhere else!
3. If you
make an error, don't make a big deal of it. Just keep going. Your audience will
feel relieved to know you're just as human as they are.
4. A great
way to alleviate nerves is to make eye contact with specific people in the
audience. If one person gives you a blank stare, move on to someone more
receptive.
5. Wear
appropriate clothes that show your personality, and most importantly, that feel
comfortable! Nothing is worse than discomfort due to tight or scratchy clothes.
And if your shoes will show beneath a podium, wear nice ones! For women, it may
be best to wear a pantsuit. Bare legs can be a distraction.
Public
speaking can be very rewarding. If you want to do it, all you need to do is
learn the ropes and believe in yourself!
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